Why be so exclusive?

Ok so the buzz is still high over Miss California's reply to Perez Hilton's question during the Miss USA Comp.  Perez has been nonstop tweeting about it on his official Twitter.  If you live under a rock and are unaware of the situation here's what went down.

Perez was a judge on the beauty-I mean-scholarship competition.  His question was "Vermont recently became the 4th state to legalize same sex marriage, do you think more states should follow suit? Why or why not?"

Now she took the road "marriage should be between a man and a woman."  I have to say her honesty is endearing, but you just opened up a feud with Perez.  

Yes, free speech is a cornerstone of the American Constitution.  But, the aftermath of all the "religious" people and the Gay, Lesbian, and Transgendered community feeling they need to voice their opinions is a little much.  

There are a few reasons why this gets me going.  1)  I hate anything that preaches equality and inclusion but turns around to be ultra-exclusive.  2)  The whole sanctity of marriage BS.

I have been witness to more heterosexual marriages ending in divorce than I have seen same-sex life partnerships end in break up.  Sanctity of marriage my ass!  Is the sanctity of marriage when a husband beats his wife?  Or how about when one or the other cheats over the entire course of the marriage then after 21 years of yelling and mental abuse one leaves the other and fights in court for their rights to the marital assets?  If that is the sanctity of marriage then count me out.  

My mom left my father 8 years ago after 21 years of mental abuse.  She has been with the man I call my step dad for 7 years.  They aren't married.  They talk about it, but it would be his 4th and her 2nd.  They are perfect together.  High school sweethearts that reconnected after 24 years.  The same injustices that the homosexual community faces, they are actually facing.  My mom can't even be added to his insurance because they aren't married.  And yes, I know it's not the same, but it holds similarities.

Now onto the religious aspect.  Look here you hypocritical fuckers!  If God loves everyone and Jesus saves, then why the fuck would they not accept everyone!  Religion is about love and acceptance, not being in an exclusive club.  And as far as the quote "but the Bible says."  If the Bible said to have a relationship with God you have to cut off all pleasurable habits would you fucking do it?  That means if you find pleasure in coffee, bubble baths, YouTube, card games, and/or any other fetish you find release in, would you stop?  No you wouldn't you would say that it's open to interpretation and that some things are a sign of the times.  Same way people look at the "wives must submit to their husbands".  People find that outdated and stupid.  Huh?  We interpret what we see fit for ourselves.

I have an open relationship with God.  I don't go to church, but I know he's open and accepting of sinners, saints, drunks, druggies, whores, and gluttons.  Why can't he accept homosexuals?  Answer:  HE DOES!  Who are we to judge anyone?  Judging people isn't the job of a mortal.  Judging isn't the job of a sinner.  And we are all sinners!  That's why I have faith in God, not religion.  He listens to me even though I don't go to church.  He loves me even though I don't claim a religion.  He loves us all!  So who are the religious, Bible beating, hypocritical Christians to judge, hate, and cast stones?    Go read your Bible you inconsiderate, selfish, hypocrites.  Open your heart and mind for that is when God touches you the most!

Faith, hope, and love are just a few things he gave us.  And the greatest is LOVE!